Holden Caufield

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  Dating and love

  by Holden Caufield in

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  i find myself still at 25 nervous around women.

  i wonder is dating and marriage really worth the hassle.

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  Well my advice for all on this board is avoid it like the damn plague. To hell with marriage.
  
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  Dating and love

  by Holden Caufield in

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  i find myself still at 25 nervous around women.

  i wonder is dating and marriage really worth the hassle.

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  Holden Caufield

  A young man contemplating marriage sought advice from Diogenes. "Should I marry?"

  "Marriage is too soon for a young man"

  "Would you have me wait then until I am old."

  "Oh no, Marriage is far too late for an old man."

  "What am I to do then? I love the girl."

  "Love is a luxury no one can afford. It is for those who have nothing better to do."

  "What should we be doing then?"

  "To seek freedom. But it is not possible to be free if you have a wife and children."

  "But having a wife and family is so agreeable."

  "Then you see the problem, young man. Freedom would not be so difficult to attain were prison not so sweet."

  "You mean to be free is to be alone?"

  "We come into the world alone and we die alone. Why, in life, should we be any less alone?"

  "To live, then, is terrible."

  "No, not to live, but to live in chains."
  
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  Dating and love

  by Holden Caufield in

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  i find myself still at 25 nervous around women.

  i wonder is dating and marriage really worth the hassle.

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  Holden Caufield

  But we must ask ourselves Is it not better to be single and happy then to be married and miserable?
  
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  Dating and love

  by Holden Caufield in

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  2. relationships

  i find myself still at 25 nervous around women.

  i wonder is dating and marriage really worth the hassle.

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  Holden Caufield

  I find myself still at 25 nervous around women. I wonder is dating and marriage really worth the hassle.?
  
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  Dating

  by Holden Caufield in

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  who else as a result of being a jw has been cynical of relationships..

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  I say to all be single to hell with relationships. I mean why do we put so much effort for something that will eventually fail.
  
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  Dating

  by Holden Caufield in

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  who else as a result of being a jw has been cynical of relationships..

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  who else as a result of being a Jw has been cynical of relationships.
  
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  Tips on how to raise money

  by Holden Caufield in

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  2. beliefs

  i need some ideas to raise money for my study research trip for west africa in cape coast ghana..

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  Holden Caufield

  all right here are some ideas I implemented one is do a school fundraiser and or sell stuff on ebay collect cooper or collect change on the ground LOL.
  
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  Today I learned - I'm incapable of having a relationship

  by Garrett in

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  hello my dear friends,.

  while this post may not be entirely witness related, i figured i'd write out my thoughts here as a form of release and reflection.. recently, a lot has changed in my life.

  i'm away from home for the first time in a long while training to get certified in a field i'm not even sure i want to work in anymore.

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  Holden Caufield

  Yeah I agree I still get nervous around women.
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  Tips on how to raise money

  by Holden Caufield in

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  i need some ideas to raise money for my study research trip for west africa in cape coast ghana..

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  Holden Caufield

  come on really ripping people when this is part of a school project. I were doing for personal gain at the expense of my school I would be sued for everything. If you guys took this the wrong way then im sorry.
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  Tips on how to raise money

  by Holden Caufield in

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  i need some ideas to raise money for my study research trip for west africa in cape coast ghana..

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  Holden Caufield

  I hate doing this personally but trying to gather money for travel overseas for school is no joke . Sorry if I happen to have offdended anyone you all seemed to have jumped my down throat. I would not scam someone for my own gain is just wrong and for you all to assume that is just wrong.